Don't Judge Haggard Print E-mail
By Jesse Lava
Nov. 03, 06 00:26

 The allegation is out that Rev. Ted Haggard, one of the nation’s leading evangelicals, had a three-year, adulterous sexual relationship with a male escort.  Though Haggard stepped down from his presidency of the National Association of Evangelicals and resigned as head of New Life Church in Colorado, he denies the allegation.  And the fact is, we don’t know whether it’s true or not. 

 

In the whirlwind of pre-election coverage of this titillating accusation, we must not forget Christ’s command to judge not, lest we be judged.  If the allegation turns out to be true, it will just be one illustration of a fundamental Christian belief: that all human beings fall short and need God’s grace.  No one is exempt from temptation.  No one is free from sin.  We all have planks in our own eyes to remove before we go picking out specks in the eyes of others.  And what this country needs is not more judgment but more understanding and more love.

  

We at FaithfulDemocrats.com offer our prayers and sympathy to the Haggard family, the NAE, and all who are impacted by this difficult situation.  We hope they will emerge from this episode stronger and transformed by grace.  And we hope that the family of American Christians — Democrats and Republicans alike — will use this opportunity to hear the voices of people everywhere who are cast out, down on their luck, and in need of compassion.  In this fallen world, the need for grace abounds.  We as Christians should be there to provide it, remembering our responsibility to build a world of equality and justice — and recognizing that judging the private failings of others will bring us no closer to that ultimate goal.

 

Scripture does call us to make evaluations about right and wrong, of course.  When we believe an action goes against God's will, we should say so, particularly if the action has some significance to other people.  This site makes such evaluations all the time, as in the Mark Foley case

 

But the kind of judging we should avoid is holding ourselves above other people — of having contempt not only for actions, but for human beings.  And we hope that Christians will reserve such judgment of Rev. Haggard.  For in the end, whether the allegation is true is not the most important issue.  What's important is what this situation reminds us about how we should respond to those who, like Haggard, though in myriad other ways, are in need.

 

Late update: Haggard admits "some guilt."


LIST OF COMMENTS

1/14. Indeed
Written by mistformsquirrel  | Nov. 03, 06 09:17
I think what Mr. Haggard needs right now is alot of prayer and support. While I feel it is good to expose hypocrisy - that does not mean we should hate the hypocrit.

God has a plan in this - and I hope that Ted Haggard can come out of this stronger, and more in touch with that plan than before.

2/14. Not a Surprise
Written by T. Adams  | Nov. 03, 06 11:20

 

Please READ.  A Christian’s viewpoint on Hypocrisy and Why this is no surprise!

 

ALL SINS ARE NOT EQUAL.  Althought all sin has the same consequence, Proverbs tells us that there are 6 sins the Lord hates. Guess what, homosexuality is not even on the list. The first two are, in order: Pride, and a lying tongue.  Pride is the worst sin in god’s eye because it was the first sin recorded in the universe, when Lucifer decided to become like God. Pride attempts to make one as God.

 

There is more pride and lying in today’s Christians than there is homosexuality in America.   

 

So when Haggard, someone who feels they need to speak against sins in this country, which I do not by nature disagree with, spends all their time speaking down about something, there is a very good chance he forgot to do this in love and meekness.  You can only judge people so long before pride over takes you. The Bible also tells us if we do not help those that are in sin in a meek manner, we will also be tempted with the same sin.

 

Galatians 6:1

“ Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. “

 

As a Christian I must always remind myself, there is no difference between me and the drug addict, the murderer, the prostitute, or the homosexual, and that I am capable of ALL of these things under the right circumstances OUTSIDE of Christ.  Christ is the only difference I have, and is the only thing that can keep me from these things. So there is nothing for me to be proud about.  When you understand this, you can help these people in love and meekness. Sin is a deeply personal struggle that can engross ones entire life. Yelling at them from a podium or pulpit will not change them.  If the church would get this, they would realize that those in need of help are much more receptive to this attitude.

 


3/14. New Life Church Member
Written by Chad  | Nov. 03, 06 12:04

As a Republican Christian who attends New Life, finding this site in the middle of "hostile" territory demonstrates the truth and the real love of Christ. 

In these confusing times the truth about people comes out, sincere Christians rising above social, economic, and political barriers to show the true love of Christ in the mist of a rival’s sin. 

It reminds me of Jesus with the woman at the well, and gives me faith and hope in the Christian body. Thank you and may He richly bless you for you have chosen to be salt and light, to me, my church, my pastor and to the world.


4/14. moderation
Written by esapp  | Nov. 03, 06 12:24

I’m not defending Haggard’s actions--especially since we still don’t know exactly what he may or may not have done—or saying that I necessarily agree with everything the NAE says or does.  But I think Democrats and those with a more liberal inclination need to be very wary of lumping the NAE and its president in with Dobson, Faldwell and some of the other partisan/”hot-button only” elements of the religious right or strategists in the Republican Party. 

 

It will be tragic if these allegations turn out to be true, and as faithfuldemocrats said, it will stand as another reminder of the fallen nature of all of God’s children.  The press is focusing in on the hypocrisy angle, and there is no denying that the NAE and Haggard have taken a prominent position on the definition of marriage.  But unlike some others who have taken public positions against gay marriage, the NAE has focused on much more than abortion and gays.  The largest Member of the NAE is the Salvation Army, and Rich Cizik (lead crusader for environmental stewardship) is the NAE spokesman. 

 

So I think we need to avoid saying things like, “this is what happens when you focus all your time on calling out sins in others.”  As with the rest of the evangelical community, the NAE and its leaders spend the vast majority of their time and energy on issues that many Democrats also consider the priorities in Scripture.  We shouldn’t be pointing fingers during this time but instead keeping them clasped together in prayer for Haggard and all those affected by this story.  Kudos to faithfuldems for striking the right tone here.


5/14. Far be it from me...
Written by padrejm  | Nov. 03, 06 12:50

to ever raise a dissenting voice in response to a call for Christians to avoid judgmentalism.  Even a casual reading of the Epistle of St. James makes our duty in the matter clear.

Of course, Pastor Haggard needs and deserves our prayers and our compassion at this most difficult time for him, for the souls entrusted to his pastoral care, and for the Cause of Christ sullied whenever such scandals arise.

I am concerned, however, that the damage is compounded if we allow ourselves to be mis-read as condoning rather than merely withholding judgment.  The entire matter is prompting me to redouble my efforts at introspection with regard to the perils, spiritually and in terms of witness, when we allow, either by design or benign neglect, the lines between our roles as pastors and our activities in the political arena to be blurred.

This is an issue that has been giving me some discomfort for a long time, and I had already planned to delve into it more deeply after the current election cycle is over.  The postponement is motivated in no small part to not wanting to unwittingly become part of a voter suppression effect.

In the meantime, I think I need to pray not only for the Rev. Mr. Haggard, but for myself, that I might better discern God's will with respect to his command to be not conformed, but transformed. 


6/14. Issue, not person
Written by Alexander  | Nov. 03, 06 13:11
Having just watched Richard Brooks' Elmar Gantry (1960) last night, the final scenes where the faithful go from adoration to pelting him with vegetables to forgiveness reminds me that we folks are fickle.  And that media, interest groups, and self-interest all work to sway reactions.

I've been following the Haggard news move through the blogoshere and among faith groups. It's clear now that he has admitted guilt to buying meth and contacting Mike Jones for only a"massage".

But the real issue for folks of faith is the tradition of attacking homosexual practice and civil rights while misunderstanding that human sexuality goes beyond just pro and con.

This speaks directly to the issue, not the person. Over at the Center for American Progress, Jennifer Butler <a href="http://blog.faithinpubliclife.org/2006/11/the_common_good_gay_rights_and.html">moderated a discussion </a> with Bishop Gene Robinson. Most remember Bishop Robinson's election as the first openly gay bishop in the Episcopal Church, and the strife that has ensued within the Anglican communion since then.

The Bishop's remarks were notable for both their wisdom and charity (even to those with whom he disagrees), two virtues that are rare in our public discourse. There's good video of the event as well.

7/14. Good for you
Written by Greg Hebert  | Nov. 03, 06 13:13
Dear Faithful Democrats,

Good for you.  True Christians know that judgement is God's, not ours.
Jesus was rather clear about casting the first stone.  However, it is
correct to teach the lesson of "refraining from judging" and point out the
hypocrisy of our conservative friends using judgement as a club
against their opposition.

I have said for years that the problem with Democrats in the political
arena is that they are forgiving.  That is good spiritually, but a handicap
in politics.  We forgive our Republican friends and expect forgiveness back,
which doesn't happen.  Sort of like the Republican Lucy pulling the ball
from the Democratic Charlie Brown.  "By their fruits you will know them".

Greg

8/14. men, money and power
Written by j williams  | Nov. 03, 06 13:51

Lets get honest.  Finally we are hearing of the hypocrisy and deceit in right wing, religious men who are obviously controlled by physical desires and the arrogance to think it is OK for them to do the very thing they are publicly condemning.  Come on, wake up.  They are representative of the true nature of such egotistical church leaders we have in every denomination and every religion worldwide.  They use the Bible or other Holy Book or Mantra to control others, especially women, and society,  to get what they want physically, financially, emotionally and socially. 

It is pathetic that leaders like James Dobson and religious websites are asking us to forgive and not judge these deceptive, guilty men of recent.  At the same time they are asking us to defeat legislation to protect or assist those who do such  'sins' openly and honestly, asking only to have their freedom of choice protected. In light of recent 'right wing' transgressions, are we to honestly believe no such religious leaders family has not been touched by abortion, homosexuality, and all other 'sins' which they so publicly condemn?  They publicly want to deny others the rights to do the very thing they themselves have done.  That is just pride and arrogance, it has nothing to do with 'sin' or 'purity' or 'God', it is just selfishness. 

...And religious leaders wonder why everyone is leaving 'the church'.


9/14. open the closet
Written by Laura M  | Nov. 03, 06 15:01

When Christians allow their brothers and sisters to come out of the closet, these tragic stories will go away. For every Foley and Haggart, there are thousands of scared, closet Christians in our churches.

How many more lives must be ruined before Christians will truly examine this issue????


10/14. Well done, Jesse!
Written by sandrawantstobeCJ  | Nov. 03, 06 19:47

Your post is an example of why this site was so sorely needed.  I didn't read this message on any other site.  Thank you for showing a great example!


11/14. Surprisingly
Written by mouse  | Nov. 03, 06 19:49

 While launching several attacks over the Foley scandal, I was never truly upset at Foley. I was more conflicted I would say than anything, and not at all surprised by his confession that he had been in a similiar situation in his own youth. That he was so interested, devoted to enact legislation to protect children, was a clear indication to me that this was probably the case. That he was a closet alcholic, in order to self medicate the suffering inside, was just par for the course.

 The people whom I found fault with, were those that forced Foley to suffer alone, through a chosen ignorance. They just didn't want to know, they just didn't care enough to listen, and so like a stone tossed into a pond, the suffering spread, its ripples extending out into society abroad.

  This is the wisdom that is found in the teachings of Christ. When we allow pride and arrogance to persuade our moral judgement of right and wrong, then in our self imposed ignorance, we allow the suffering to continue.

  And yet, also the opposite is true, as in the parable of the good samaritan. When healing begins, it to is as a ripple, that heals all those around. However this can only happen when we allow ourselves to forgive.


12/14. Ted Haggard
Written by ify  | Nov. 04, 06 07:54
Why are conservative Christians expect me to show the love of Christ to Ted Haggard. These are people who attack feminist as victicrats for defending women against filth, politicize Bill Clinton's sex scandals, while claiming Ted Haggards sex scandal is politicized, pretend abortion and gays are sinful while standing by while men put their putrid filthy sins into the world creating sexual slavery, fatherlessness, genocide and terror. Notice that conservative christians have taken to calling dehumanization, and evil "political incorrectness". Please. You are lucky that liberals can barely get excited over gay sex. As for me I can say I am too busy fighting real sin and evil. Please don't forget to tell the conservative christian women who yell at women for "trivializing sins" like working outside the home not to trivialize this one. Fun part is the Democrats, both faithful and not faithful are finding it difficult to attack Ted Haggard like James Dobson attacked Bill Clinton. They are all saying they feel sorry for his gay little self. They think they are going to win brownie points from conservatives. I just see weakness. Or maybe the favor of God. Cause I know it is God who is staying my hand. And God Alone.

13/14. Fom the Excommunicated Democrat
Written by emeyer  | Nov. 04, 06 21:27

This website perplexes me so much that I either have to quit or take up drinking. Last week, this website excommunicated me from the Party, giving me the boot and calling me "right-wing" for being WELS. It took a late night call to my dad to calm me down and convince me that I didn't have to be a Republican. I could at least go Independant. This website is just another sad example of why the Democratic Party - the party I loved - just doesn't get it.

 

In the headlines, Faithful Democrats called the WELS response to the Bachmann congressional race a "evastion statement." I don't know what "evastion" means (and neither does dictionary.com) but I think FD is trying to bash the WELS by saying it is eluding the issue. However, there is an article on this page about Jennifer Granholm of Michigan. Her position pretty much hits the same point. Yet there is a button to donate to her campaign.

 

THEN.. and this is what really kills me. This article titled, "Don't Judge Haggard." THE DUDE HURT A LOT OF PEOPLE BY LYING! And I'm the one who has all hell and damnation on me for saying I belong to the WELS. I can't even belong to a particular church and this guy, who was probably Republican, can condemn homosexuals and teach his church the same. Then turns around and cheats on his wife and pays for prostitution!

 

Did you donate your brain cells to stem cell research? Pass me a beer, I quit!


14/14. gave you the boot?
Written by trapper joe  | Nov. 05, 06 00:03
emeyer, how did this site give you the boot?  your comments are still up on that thread.

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